Chemo Shower - Brought to you by midnight wine

Last night Mike and I had some merlot and late night nachos.  The following idea then came to me before we headed for bed: chemo showers.

When people are going through a huge change, there's sometimes a party to help the person/people out.  People bring gifts that will assist with the change.  Baby showers, you bring diapers, clothes, formula, creams, toys, or baby furniture items to help the parents.  Wedding showers you give small appliances, gift cards for renovations, silverware, dishes, china, or whatever the couple has asked for help with.  So what about when you're about to not be as functional because of chemotherapy treatment?

You have found out you will be on chemo.  You get a couple of your best friends together and pick a date to have a chemo shower, either before the first one or after you have the first treatment for a better idea of how it will affect you.  Either have the party in house, at a friend's, or your favourite restaurant.  Decorate with things that make you happy: your favourite colours, your favourite quotes, your happiest photos, pictures of kittens, whatever your desire.  People bring gift cards for food, coffee/tea, takeout restaurants, or vouchers for cleaning, childcare, or drives to the hospital/grocery store, or self pampering things that you might not be able to afford like a massage (even just a foot/hand/scalp massage), gel nails, gift card to your favourite store to get movies/games, or a pricey restaurant that you adore their desserts.  The theme is always support and joy.  This is a great time to say exactly what you will need help with.  Make a list of needs and post it on the wall (make it fun with a poster board and make it a "pin the chemo bag on the thing they will help with" game), let people sign up for what they can do.  Susan can help watch the kids for the January 4th chemo treatment.  Jack can come mow your lawn on May 16th.  Paul will take the kids overnight on October 12th so you can have a night to yourself when you are most likely to feel like going out for a night.  Janice will drive you to your treatment on February 27th.  Chris will take you to the movies on August 19th for a fun afternoon.  Think about not only your treatment days, but the days when you are feeling a bit normal, you need to have a life and have fun.

So that's my thought.  Brought to you by fajita chicken bacon nachos and merlot.  #Omnomnom