Of course one of the big hiccups in my life, even more so than cancer, has been the injuries from the MVA years ago. One thing that has been a big factor in is weight management. During my pregnancy with my daughter I had hoped I'd somehow find that niche that would allow me to maintain my weight and not gain a significant amount. Some mothers can do this, even without turning to unhealthy habits like smoking. Just keeping active and eating as well as you can is what everyone recommends. That'd be fine for anyone without my injuries, but still I did my best.
Unfortunately, my best turned out to be the same as when I was pregnant with my son, I gained a lot of weight. Some would say to not sweat it, that with time it will come off, but with me, extra weight seems to mean my back is carrying more, therefore hurts more. So I stick with what exercises I have been given from physio, do what low impact ones I know do not bother my back, and so forth. This does make it a slow process.
I try to remind myself that it took me almost two and a half years to lose the weight after my son. I had finally been reaching a healthy weight for myself when I found out I was pregnant. That is my goal, a healthy weight. I'm not aiming for unrealistic or sickly sizes. I would be a stick figure if I was able to wear a size 2 pair of jeans. Honestly, if I could even get within a size or two of what I wore when I was fit, I'd be content.
Many may say it is a quest for vanity, to be society's idea of pretty. I'm not looking at that, however, I'm looking at my health. Less weight and stronger muscles means potential less pain for me. It means potential increases in play time with my kids. It means possible health risks for the overweight may be avoided. Don't get me wrong, with new, perky breasts on the way, a fit body would be fun and I will enjoy it, but it is not the sole reason by far.
I guess I'm trying to say that if you have extra weight, do what you and your body can. If you cannot run, walk. If you cannot walk, try biking. If you cannot bike, try something new. Getting up and walking around the couch will not get you far, but you are lapping everyone still sitting down.